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FAQs 

How do you start going to church?
Look at the calendar to find a service time that suits you. Then come along, there will be someone near the door to welcome you and they can show you where to go and what to do. It can be daunting, but try not to worry - there's more detail of what to expect on the New to Church page

Do I need to tell you I'm coming?
No - just come

Do I need to be Baptised/Christened?
No. If that is something you are interested in exploring, then after the service you can speak to the priest or minister.

Which church can I go to?
You can go to any of the churches. If the first one you go to isn't for you, then do try another - they are all slightly different in worship style and some suit some people better than others.

What does it cost?
There is no charge for coming to church - you don't need to buy a ticket or pay and entry fee.
If you are in a position to contribute to the financial costs then there are ways to make a voluntary donation, either cash or card or online. 

What do I wear?
Wear whatever is comfortable. There is no need to wear 'Sunday Best'.

What if I'm late?
No problem, still come in. Try to come in quietly so as not to disturb people if they are praying.

How will I know what to do?
You will be given a booklet which is the Order of Service - this will have words that are said by the priest or minister and words to say all together - these are usually in bold. The leader may tell you when to sit or stand or just follow what everyone else is doing. Maybe sit somewhere in the middle so you can see others.
You can also ask those who welcomed you if there is someone you can sit by who can show you what to do.

Who can I go to when I have questions?
The welcomers will be willing to answer your questions. As will the person leading the service.
There is usually a time after the service when we have refreshments and this is a great time to ask things.

Can I bring my children?
Children are very welcome. While there are no formal groups for children, all the churches have either activities for them to use while with you in your seat or a space for them within the church.

Can I bring my dog?
Dogs that are under control and on a lead are welcome. We ask that you sit with your dog near you and that you are conscious that some people are afraid of dogs.

Is the building accessible?
Most of our churches have a permanent step-free access. Those that don't have a portable ramp.
2 churches, St Mary's and St John's, have a hearing loop.

Can I have the bread and wine at communion?
If you are baptised and used to having bread and wine in your own church then you are welcome to receive during Holy Communion in our churches.

Do you have gluten free and alcohol free communion?
Gluten free wafers are available - please let the welcomers know this is what you need and they will make sure it is ready for you.
Alcohol free wine is available at St Mary's - again, let the welcomer know.

What if I don't like it?
No problem. We won't be offended.
Maybe try one of the other churches in the group next time and see if you like that. Or speak to the minister about what it is you don't like and they might be able to suggest somewhere for you to try.

What if I need to leave before the end?
That's fine. Try to leave quietly so as not to disturb or distract others.

What if I'm not sure what I believe?
This is a great chance to explore and find out. 
All of us have questions so please do ask. There are priests and ministers who are trained to help you explore and sometimes we run courses or study groups to do that exploring together.

I/my child have additional needs. What can we expect?
We will do our best to accommodate anyone with additional needs. Please do contact Revd Laura if you would like to have a conversation about this.

Do you affirm female ministry?
Yes. In the group there are currently 2 female priests and 3 male priests and other male and female ministers.

Are you LGBTQ+ friendly?
Yes. We welcome and affirm people no matter their gender or sexuality.

Glenys
Hello and welcome to our church. If you are a new visitor, we have a page for you to get to know us and learn more about planning a visit.
Click here to see more.

Planning your Visit

New to church? A very warm hello to you


We are a group of 6 churches with a range of different services throughout the week.
Whenever you come along you will receive a warm welcome and there will be people to help you if you need it, so do ask.

If you don't find the answer to a question about coming to church on this page you might find it on our FAQs page

Most church services will include words we all say together, at least one reading from the Bible, a talk on the reading, and some prayers. On Sunday mornings, but at other times too, there will be songs or hymns to sing (you can just listen if you don't know the tune).

On Sunday morning Services are at either 9.30am or 11.00am

9.30am services are held at Holy Innocents and St Barnabas every week and at Holy Trinity on the 2nd and 4th Sundays each month.
11.00am services are held at St Mary's, St John's and St Peter's every week.

When should I arrive? It can be helpful to arrive 10 to 15 minutes before the service is due to start so that you can collect any books that you'll need during the service and find somewhere to sit.
At all our churches, there will be someone near to the door to welcome you, give you what you need and show you where to sit. They can also answer any questions...like where the toilet is. They are very friendly people, so please don't be worried about asking anything.

Where should I sit? Seating is either in pews - fixed rows of bench-like seats with backs - or chairs in rows or around tables depending on which church you go to. Unless there is a temporary label saying a seat or pew is reserved, you are welcome to sit anywhere. If this is your first time, it might be useful to sit in a middle row so you can follow what others do - when they stand up or sit down for instance.




How will I know what to do? 
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All church services will include words everyone says together, at least one reading from the Bible, a talk about the Bible reading and prayers. Often, especially on a Sunday there will be songs or hymns to sing too. You will usually be given a Service booklet which will have words that the person leading the service, a priest or other minister, will say as well as words printed in bold that everyone says together. The words for hymns or songs that are sung will either be in a hymn book or on a separate sheet of paper. You might also be given a Pew Sheet which gives news and information about the services and events coming up soon, this is for you to take home with you.

Do I need to pay to come?  Coming to church is free. There is no entry price. God's love is freely given and coming to church extends that generosity to everyone.
There are costs to running the building and the services and events so, if you are in a position to do so, there is a donation or collection plate. In some churches there are card machines or QR codes where you can make a donation too.  
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Most services are followed by refreshments...a hot drink and biscuits or cake. There are cold drinks available too. These are offered freely, if you want to make a donation to help cover the costs you are welcome to do so.

A lady pouring a drink, a table with cups and chocolate biscuits, a man asking for a drink

Can I bring my children? Children are also very welcome to come along. They can sit with you during the service. Most churches have books, and simple activities the children can enjoy while with you.
They do not need to be silent so don't worry if they make a bit of noise and if they need to move around a bit and go for a walk to see what's going on that's ok...although avoid running so they're safe.
In some churches, there are children's workers who will offer to do activities with them and they will join you again later in the service.


 

 

Sunday afternoon, Sunday evening and Mid-week services
Worship - what we are doing during a service - also happens in services at other times than Sunday mornings.
You can see the planned services on the Calendar

Types of service you'll see included on the Calendar

Eucharist or Holy Communion - a service during which bread and wine is shared. People will come forward to the altar (the table at the front of church) and be given a small wafer of bread and a sip of wine. Some people will go forward to have a blessing. Everyone is welcome to come forward - if you've never been before, take your service book with you to receive a blessing. A female priest is standing with arms outstretched behind the altar, a chalice and patten are on the altar Morning prayer...sometimes called: A Service of the Word - the focus is on the Bible readings and what they mean in our lives. 
Cafe Church - a more relaxed type of service with drinks available during the service and more chance to chat and talk about what is being said. Evensong - A traditional evening service with sung Psalms and prayers and extra music from the choir.
Messy Church - a way of worshipping that is for all ages, including creative activities, story, hospitality and celebration. You can find out more here Family Friendly Eucharist - a mix of traditional and modern music, interactive prayers, play and pray space for little ones and activities for older ones running alongside the service

Other Services
Seasonal services - during Advent, Christmas, Lent and Easter there will be all sorts of services including Carol Services, Crib Services (telling the Christmas Story), quiet services for reflection, services where we move around the church

Other special services - during the year there will be times when the pattern of services will change or there are extra services. During November there are Remembrance Sunday services and Memorial or All Souls services to remember and give thanks to God for people who have died. There are services in January, spring and autumn to celebrate the agricultural year, including Harvest services. 

Baptisms or Christenings, Weddings and Funerals - at these you will be welcomed by someone near the door. You will usually be given an Order of Service which will let you know what's happening. The minister taking the service will also let you know what to do. 

Accessibility: Most of our churches have permanent step-free access or there are ramps available. There are toilets at all the churches.